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Welcome to my remote counselling services. I’m Gavin Reid MBACP, a registered member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP), and I’m here to offer you compassionate and professional support, wherever you are.

are you a people pleaser?

I certainly used to be, but for a long time, didn’t understand what it was.

🔵 For many LGBTQ+ people, past experiences with rejection, discrimination, or identity invalidation make it difficult to say ‘no’ or assert personal needs.

🔵 You might feel pressure to please others, hide parts of yourself, or overextend emotionally. In therapy, we work together to identify these patterns and gently challenge them.

🔵 Setting boundaries isn’t about pushing people away—it’s about honouring your own values, space, and comfort.

🔵 You deserve space for your own voice, needs, and wellbeing. Together, we can explore how to move from pleasing others to living authentically.

🔵 Setting healthy boundaries is an essential part of emotional well-being, especially within the LGBTQ+ community.

🔵 Boundaries help define where you end and others begin—they protect your mental health, foster respect in relationships, and promote a strong sense of self.

🔵 Whether it’s with family, friends, work, or romantic relationships, healthy boundaries create clarity and safety.

🔵 They help you recognise what’s yours to carry—and what isn’t. We’ll explore communication strategies, practice assertiveness, and build confidence in expressing your limits.

🔵 At my practice, I create a supportive, affirming space to empower you to stand firm in your truth. You deserve relationships where your identity is respected, and your needs are heard.

🔵 Learning to set boundaries is not only an act of self-care—it’s a vital step toward healing and thriving.

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