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Welcome to my remote counselling services. I’m Gavin Reid MBACP, a registered member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP), and I’m here to offer you compassionate and professional support, wherever you are.

Stay in your lane

In today’s fast-paced, comparison-driven world, it’s easy to get distracted by what others are doing. “Staying in your lane” means focusing on your own path—your goals, your healing, and your personal growth—without being pulled into the noise of outside expectations or judgments. In therapy, this mindset becomes especially powerful. It allows you to redirect energy away from comparison, control, or competition and toward self-awareness and authentic living.

When we step outside our lane, we often try to fix others, take on responsibilities that aren’t ours, or seek validation from the wrong places. This leads to burnout, resentment, and disconnection from ourselves. Staying in your lane is not about being selfish—it’s about boundaries, clarity, and knowing what’s truly yours to carry.

Therapy helps you explore where you’ve drifted off course and gently guides you back to yourself. It empowers you to let go of what you can’t control and commit to what you can—your choices, your healing, and your growth. The more you stay in your lane, the more grounded and free you become. And from that grounded place, you can show up more fully—both for yourself and others.

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